Who Drives the Child's Car?

Hi All

Do I really need this concept called motivation? Can I not examine, a little bit more carefully, as to how we all operate, including children.

Don't I see children learning, doing, growing, glowing, despite struggles, despite frustrations, despite no rewards or punishment.

The question then is what is more important - what we want or what children want?

Are we too motivated to motivate children?

And by the way, What taste is your carrot

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