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Session Preparation - #13 - Against Abuse

 Preparing children Against (sexual) abuse

  1. Make a list of all the things you have done to prepare your children. Keep this list ready.
  2. What else can you or any parent do? Make this list ready.
  3. As you watch this video, look for some assumptions that have been made here. List ready please.
4 True or False (according to you)
  • Chances are my Child will not get abused.
  • My child is still so young, I need not worry about sexual abuse.
  • Girls get abused, Boys don’t.
  • Only bad people from some sections of society abuse
  • My child is safe with my friends and my relatives.
  • My child will tell me if something like this happens.
  • Only men do sexual abuse, with women my child is safe.
  • I can prevent abuse as I am very vigilant.
  • My child will do what I tell him or her to do / not do.

Reminding
Invite any and many friends and relatives to be part of this session.
You can invite your friends by sharing with them that this is part of Jagriti program and tell them the date, time and zoom link. 
Request do not dump this invite in your whatsapp or facebook or insta groups - rather invite selected freinds / relatives personally and let them know not to forward this invite.
Meeting ID: 419 708 176Passcode: awaken

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